Public and private shows are two different experiences with two different sets of unwritten rules. A little etiquette goes a long way — and usually gets you a warmer, more attentive show.
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Public rooms
Public rooms are group spaces funded by tips. Models often set “goals” the room unlocks together. The etiquette is simple: say hello, keep chat respectful, and tip if you’re enjoying it — tipping is what keeps the room free for everyone.
- Don’t demand specific acts for free — that’s what private shows are for.
- Tipping toward a goal is the friendliest way to participate.
- Be patient in busy rooms; models can’t read every message.
Private shows
A private show is a paid one-on-one where the model performs for you alone, usually with cam2cam available. Because you’re paying by the minute or in tokens, it’s the place for specific requests — communicated politely.
- Agree on what you’d like at the start so the time is well spent.
- Respect stated boundaries — every model sets their own.
- A tip at the end for a great show is appreciated, never required.
When to switch
Use public rooms to find a model you click with, then go private when you want focused, personal time. That two-step approach gives you the best of both formats. If you’re not sure which platform to start on, the Find My Match quiz covers the full range of sites on this site based on budget and what you want out of it.